Life · 中文

Taking Advantage 搵你笨

I hate people taking advantage of other people !
Or ME.

You may say that’s somewhat like volunteering/ helping people in need, and it doesn’t hurt to let people take advantage of you. But I would just go volunteer and help people I want to help if I really want to. Please stop making excuses for your selfishness, and please don’t take things for granted. Making other people look stupid doesn’t make you smarter/ look smarter.

Also, taking advantage of other people’s weaknesses only makes you look bad eventually. And this kind of people are everywhere! At work, at church, even among friends. They especially love to take advantage of people who are bad at rejecting. !!

Some people would lie to take advantage, some people just don’t care – they would just show everyone – I don’t know which one is worse.

A wish that will never come true is that there will be no more of people taking advantage of other. Or I should just become smarter and good at rejecting people. The thing is, most of the time I can’t tell if people are taking advantage of me (lying), or if they really need help.

這世界真的有很多人「搵人笨」,即佔人便宜。

我常常都被人搵笨,被搵笨後也不知被揾了笨,還以為幫了人。樂觀一點就是幫了人,而那人恐怕在背後笑得不可開支,竟有人被揾笨而不自覺。搵人笨的可能覺得「人不為己、天誅地滅」,而現今社會正邁向這目標,大部分人為了自己利益可不擇手段,為錢為權力,親人也不顧。我討厭這制度。每人都自私自利,最後這社會只會變得非常冷漠。

也有極端的人,為了不被人揾笨,什麼人也不會幫,也是只顧自己利益的,他們極度小心,所有事都不甘居於後,唯恐走了寶的。跟這種人相處也很辛苦,事事都不用指意他們會伸出援手,就是不被他們懷疑已是謝天謝地。

我希望我再也不用被人揾笨,以後我也不會搵人笨。

 

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